What is the best way to go from having black hair to going back to your natural blonde color?

I am a natural blonde and started dying my hair black after my mother passed away when I was 17. I am about to be 30 and am getting married next year. My honey asked me to be my natural self when we tie the knot, so I can be in my natural state :) But I don't want to completely fry my hair. I only use rinse out hair color by Natural Instincts.What is the best way to go from having black hair to going back to your natural blonde color?
I use natural instincts black dye too ! But in a week I am going to get my hair lightened and the girl who cuts my hair said I need to stop using the weekly color treatment conditioner thing and she will need to use whatever she has there to extract it , so maybe if you go to a salon they can extract the dye for you , but she also said its a really difficult brand to get out . But you could also try Sally Beauty for things that extract the dye if you don't want to spend the time and money to go to a salon , and congratulations on getting married !(:What is the best way to go from having black hair to going back to your natural blonde color?
You have to get it done professionally, even then though it will be difficult. If you want to save your hair from major damage definitely go get it professionally done!


They will have to lighten it up little by little, or you can simply have the color stripped and have your hair bleached. Might have to provide extensions though...cuz you'll lose hair.
the best way to do it is let it grow outtttttttttttt!
the fastest way to get it out is to have it stripped at the hair salon.





you could just let it grow out and then try to color zap! it out but that might take awhile.





i would say getting it stripped and then deep conditioning it for a few weeks.
if you don't want to destroy your hair, the BEST BEST way would be to let it all grow out. :(
Oh my goodness 13 years wasted of blonde beauty O.O


Die it slightly lighter colour every time you do it and it should be easier or else just keep growing out of it.
What do you mean by rinse-out? Is it permanent dye?





Really it's so hard to go from black to blonde. I tried, it took six months and it only brought me to a light strawberry blonde stage before I gave up and went back to black. You should explain to him the difficulties of going back, but ask him if he's willing to let you take time on it. Try using a color stripper, that MAY help start it off, then go to a professional to help you use the right bleach etc.. But don't do it all at once!
okay once you dye your hair black or any dark color, your roots change color darker....so most likely you are no longer a natural blonde....try growing your hair out some and see what color your roots are, and that is now your natural color